Told my wife she is fat...

She's put on 6 sizes since we got married.We stopped having sex about a month ago. She's been hounding me asking why we haven't been having sex. The real reason why we haven't been having sex is because she thinks she is an ugly bohemath and I think that she is a lazy fat slob.

She does not like the way she looks but does nothing about it except get sad.

I still love her as a person but not in a sexual way. She just doesn't turn me on.

She hounded me today hard as why we weren't having sex, she reckons I'm cheating on her, so I told her it's because she has become fat. And elaborated and said more so the fact that she doesn't like the way she looks yet does nothing about it except be down in the dumps. How am I supposed to be sexually attracted to someone that doesn't love themselves / be confident about the way they look?

So she shed a few tears and then took off. Now I feel bad, but I just can't see any other way to handle the situation, she wanted to know why so I told her. It is the truth, I can't help if I'm not attracted to her.

Some naturally large women (who are not fat but large) perhaps say big boned, and confident about the way they look are attractive. They don't all have to be size 0 posh spices. It's more the confidence of the individual in regards to their looks rather than their looks.

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Return to Your First Love

This is awesome! Written by Greg Laurie

Do you remember when you first fell in love with your spouse? Remember how you wanted to make such a great impression?

You would wear your best clothes, put your best foot forward, and use your best manners. Wherever you went, people could see you holding hands and looking into one another's eyes. Then there were those little gifts you would give to each other throughout the week, just to let each other know how much you loved one another.

What brought you and your spouse together was your desire for companionship, for intimacy, for honesty. But when a husband and wife begin to take each other for granted, that marriage becomes endangered.

A marriage is strong because you make it that way. Romance is kept alive by a conscious effort on your part. Romance is not something that comes and goes. It is something that you keep alive as you take part in the necessary activities to keep your marriage strong and vibrant.

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No Sex Tonight...Then When?

Women! We are interesting creatures or should I say emotional creatures. Don't know why but when we (women) are stressed we tend to lose our desire for sex. It doesn't mean we don't want to have sex just not right now or atleast until the stress is gone.

So, what stresses us out? It can be finances, anxiety, kids, work, and yes our husbands. What can us women do? Well, we need to recognize what is stressing us out and tackle the problem head-on. Worrying about a situation will not help the situation.

We should take extra steps to get in the mood because we know it doesn't take men no-time at all to get in the mood. Try communicating with your spouse about your needs and what you need him to do get things poppin' in the romance department. If, you think he may need help then, the two of you should check out our website for ideas.

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